Porn: The Wonderful Thing About It: The Author's Point of View

Author's Note:

I am an aspiring porn actor/star in the adult entertainment industry. I have my own side business called "Dirty Minds Incorporated", which is an internet video porn distribution service, (totally legal, I sell only to adults over 18) where I sell my own custom made gay masturbation videos. I have sites on Pornhub, Faphouse, xHamster, ManyVids and Twitter. The viewpoints in this article are totally my own and are not intended to reflect the morals or viewpoints of mainstream American society. This article is intended to give people what they rarely get, a revelation of my own kinky part-time job and ambitions in the sex industry and inform people from the POV of pornography from a working porn actor in the business. I encourage people who read this article to view it with an open mind and keep in remember that it is a biased article in favor of porn and that it is meant for entertainment purposes as well as to inform. Therefore: here is Porn: The Wonderful Thing About It: The Author's Point of View:

Pornography. That's a dirty eleven letter word that makes mainstream, conservative American society cringe. It has the ability to destroy careers, marriages and lives. It is one thing that laws have been written about and has stirred up controversy for the many decades since the Mitchell Brothers emerged in the 1970s and released the very first pornographic film, "Behind the Green Door", starring the legendary Linda Lovelace.

Ever since the mid-1950s when the advent of sexual pioneer Hugh Marsten Hefner emerged on the cultural scene and founded his magazine, "Playboy," has open discussions of sex and pornography slowly became accepted by mainstream society. However, even in the early days of Hef's magazine he was virtually shunned by mainstream American society. "Playboy" did not truly get to be truly accepted and a part of pop culture until the late 1970s and early 1980s.

Although porn has been the butt of religious preachers' vitriol and has been blamed for the downfall of Western civilization, the wonderful fact of the matter is that "Playboy" has launched the careers of many young women who later had long, successful careers in show business. Pamela Anderson might be the most famous example.

The blonde bombshell began her career taking her clothes off in front of the "Playboy" cameras in the mid-1980s. A Canadian immigrant who came to America to pursue a career in Hollywood, she managed to get the modeling contract with "Playboy" and this, ahem, exposure, led to bigger and brighter things for this gorgeous young model/actress. After "Playboy" came film roles and undoubtedly so, her most famous role she ever took on, "Baywatch", starring David Hasselhoff, made her a true star in Hollywood. Her smoking hot body was put on full display weekly in a bright reddish/orange one piece tightly fitted bathing suit. As she scampered up and down the beach, playing Santa Monica Beach's most popular lifeguard, she made the hearts of men young and old flutter and sent their hormones raging all the way to the moon. In fact, her initial appearance in "Playboy" was not nearly enough for her legions of fans. She appeared another five or six times after that first photo-shoot where she was Playmate of the Month, becoming Playboy's all time most popular and photographed playmate/celebrity model ever. If it would not have been for "Playboy" she may still have had her career in Hollywood but it would have taken her longer and been a much harder road. Pornography was a very positive factor in Pamela Anderson's career and life.

But, Playboy is in this author's point of view, a harmless, rite of passage of fun for millions of pre-teen and young adolescent teenage boys all over the country. What is more natural than when a boy reaches puberty to begin to get interested in girls, and then once he begins thinking about them wants to explore his burgeoning sexuality that, at this age is seriously confusing him? Every 12 and 13 year old boy wonders what is going on inside his body and mind and in a great many cases these boys' father's look at Playboy and they have copies of the magazine hidden in their sock drawers. The young man will then go exploring one day and find the magazine in his father's hidden stash. So, he sees a young woman, in all her lustful beauty and sees that she has different body parts than he and he looks at the magazine and gets aroused. Seriously aroused and then masturbates. This scenario just described is the most natural of all natural activities and urges that a 12 or 13 year old boy can go through on his way to manhood and it should be accepted by adults that this will happen and if the father finds out that his pre-teen son is looking at his Playboy then he should either sit his son down and talk to him about sex or else just let it go and let his son masturbate to his heart's content as much and as often as he wants. Either solution chosen should be left up to the parents of that pubescent boy.

As far as my own experience with sex and pornography is concerned. I saw my first porn when I was fourteen. I was over at a friend's house and his parent's were away and it was just the two of us. He had the film "Woman in the Window" on VHS. He put it in the VCR, and let it run. It opened my mouth almost as wide as it opened my eyes. I discovered an entirely new world of sexual exploration for me as I began to see sex as it was supposed to be viewed. As a very beautiful expression of love between a man and a woman. Pornography, to me, has always been that way. It is in no way dirty. It is beautiful watching two bodies writhing in perfect harmony and then the orgasmic release of hormones and tension. I had an absolutely phenomenally cool friend because he had known that at that moment in time I was a virgin and when he saw I was getting aroused sexually he left the room quietly. I masturbated at that moment and touched myself for the first time in my life. I exploded hard in orgasmic delight as and the most wonderful rite of my own passage. I lost my virginity at that very moment.

As I grew up I fantasized about becoming what I have become in recent months: A porn star. This fantasy sprouted and took root at the age of fourteen, when I began watching pornography. I would have never guessed back then that I would have one day had a chance to fulfill this sexual fantasy and perform sexually in front of cameras and make money doing it. But, fast-forward to the beginning of April, 2024. I decided in the middle of that month that i would finally stop fantasizing about making a living having sex and turn this hobby into a reality and a Full-time job. I am married but my wife and I don't have sex anymore. Although bisexual I am not in a gay relationship at the moment. I opened a sex toy website last year (2023). So, over the years I would buy sex toys and masturbate with them and I'd keep the toys and not get rid of them. So, at the age of eighteen was when I ordered my first toy. Imagine, over 35 years of collecting how many toys I have? Pretty many. So, I ordered more toys from my own store and kept the best toys in my collection and began making masturbation videos on my iPhone. When I decided to begin filming myself masturbating I became very sexually active overnight and began making films relentlessly. I am currently on ManyVids, XHamster, Faphouse and some short vids on Twitter X. I haven't made much money yet but I'm just starting out and I have no doubt in my mind eventually I'll pull through and begin making money making my own porn.

I, of course, have a different take on pornography than most other people. I have a very high libido, the sex drive of four eighteen year old men. I am fifty two-years old so that really seems too much but believe me, I am not complaining. I would one day like to meet a great man and do gay porn with him and give up masturbation porn but until I meet that man I will do masturbation with sex toys vids and I am very content doing this, believe me, I'm content doing this.

The way I see it is that porn actually saves marriages. I am not going to go into details but for medical reasons my wife can not have sex with me. The sex stopped ten years ago. So, I decided that I can't live a celibate life so I need a release. I decided I would invest in sex toys and have an extraordinary sex life with me, myself and I. The sex toys and masturbation has kept me from cheating on my wife to which I made a marital commitment to that I would not cheat. I am releasing my sexual energy through sex toys and masturbation and performing in front of the cameras. I keep this life separate from my relationship activities with her, although she knows what I do and she is OK with it. I guess it is safe to say I can have my cake and eat it too.

But, if it would not be for pornography, sex toys and masturbation I would probably have cheated on my wife and have lost the one woman that I have loved in my entire life up to this point and cheating would not be worth losing her when I can just masturbate and satiate my libido.

I would like to issue a challenge for my audience. For all "morally upright" people who feel as though masturbation and pornography is wrong, or else you are on the fence as to whether or not you would ever view porn or masturbate here is something to think about. If you are married or in a committed relationship and your partner is not giving you sex but you have a high sex drive, why not give masturbation a try? How about, when nobody is around, logging into the internet and bringing up a video on a site that caters to your deepest, most wonderful, thrilling sexual fantasies and watch at least one or two steamy, erotic movies/clips? And, masturbate to your heart's content. If you are single and not in a relationship then especially for you singles out there I would highly recommend you watch porn and masturbate with sex toys. There is nobody around to catch you in the act and you can be loose at home and will not have to worry about anybody catching you doing the deed. If you keep an open mind, especially for you ladies, your bodies will eventually succumb to orgasm even if you are inorgasmic by nature and be able to enjoy sex. Sex is the most natural of natural acts that God has given each of us and should be endulged in and enjoyed to the full.

Pornography and masturbation are as natural as breathing the air. indulge. Enjoy as much of it as you can.